Turn On
The feeling that I am desirable to men... Generous, purposeful, successful, self-respecting, and also appreciating my time and their own.
And the smells: not only of perfume, but also of the body... Strong hands sliding over the body, either
just holding the steering wheel of a car or a glass of wine, with veins bulging on them. Back, shoulders, stubble and a little gray hair. A shirt, a tie, which can then be used for BDSM.
Sharpness, unpredictability and a bit of rudeness. I like it when they tear my underwear and tights, cover my mouth with their hand, fingers and penis.
In sex, it excites me to be submissive, diligent and obedient... Or not very obedient, but then necessarily punished...