Turn On
Confidence turns me on that quiet kind that says you know what you’re doing. I get hot over strong hands, intense eye contact, and someone who knows how to take their time. Teasing? Yes, please. I love the tension before the touch, the build-up that makes everything explode when it finally happens.
Turn Off
Rudeness is a dealbreaker if you can’t be respectful, don’t bother. I’m turned off by people who try too hard to impress or can’t take a hint. I’m not into lazy energy, one-sided pleasure, or anyone who skips the build-up. If you rush, push boundaries without consent, or act entitled…