Turn On
What attracts me to a man is confidence paired with kindness. I appreciate intelligence and a sense of humor, but it's the way he carries himself—his energy, his presence—that truly draws me in. A man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to pursue it, while also being genuine and respectful, is irresistible to me.
Turn Off
What doesn’t attract me in a man is arrogance or insecurity disguised as confidence. I’m turned off by selfishness or someone who lacks emotional depth. If he’s dismissive or doesn’t show respect for others, it’s an immediate dealbreaker. I value authenticity, and I can’t connect with someone who isn’t true to themselves.