Ligar
I like intelligence that doesn’t need to prove itself, a sense of humor that’s actually sharp - not just loud, and self-awareness that knows when to lead and when to listen.
I’m drawn to presence over performance,
men who are grounded but curious,
generous without needing to advertise it,
and playful without losing depth.
Add real conversation to that, and I’m all in.
Desligar
Big ego, small depth? Pass.
If you think talking over people is charm, or if you confuse cockiness with confidence—I’m already bored.
Fake deep. Fake funny. Fake nice.
I don’t play with what’s performative or desperate for validation.
If you don’t listen, don’t bother.
I don’t entertain energy I wouldn’t mirror back.