Einschalten
I love the feeling of surrender, when someone confidently guides me step by step and makes me feel special. I love it when someone speaks to me with authority but also with care, a blend of tenderness and firmness. That contrast makes me lose myself and surrender completely.
Ausschalten
I don't enjoy senseless aggression or coldness. I prefer play to have a touch of complicity, respect, and real connection. When I feel valued, I can show my most mischievous and submissive side without fear.